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Feel the Lethargy and Do It Anyway

   
Author: Holly Zenith
 

Yuck, its tax time again. One of these days, youll get your hands on the documents you need and youll fill out your return on time this year! But not right now. Thats too much hassle.

Youve been meaning to start that running program, but not tonight youre beat.

Youre at work and youre sneak-surfing on the internet. Whenever anyone passes by, you alt-tab quickly back to a bogus spreadsheet. You know you need to get back to work and stop loafing, but you just cant get focused.

Do any of these scenarios sound like you? Maybe its not taxes, exercise, and work that youre putting off maybe its a heart-to-heart conversation with your daughter, or maybe its cleaning out the junk drawer in the kitchen. Maybe its folding a basket of laundry. Clipping your toenails. Whatever it is, you just cant seem to get motivated to do anything!

Sometimes it isnt fear of failure that holds us back. Sometimes its just plain old lethargy! And if thats the case, you probably wont finish reading this article, because when youre feeling lethargic, the last thing you want is to be motivated!

I dont know about you, but often when Im feeling lethargic but otherwise perfectly healthy, I have conflicting voices running in my head. One voice wants me to snap out of it and get things done that I promised myself or others would get done. The other voice whimpers, Leave me alone.

Here are two techniques that I use to snap myself out it and get moving on things again:

1. Movement creates movement. Once you make any move at all, youve begun creating momentum, so its easier to keep moving. Sometimes it seems to require the combined forces of the entire Universe just to launch that first little bit of movement. Sometimes you have to bargain ruthlessly with yourself. I promise myself some great reward for small effort. Its ridiculous. Just open the folder on the computer that has the report I need to work on. Then click on the report and it will open. THEN I can have a candy bar. Once the report is open and Im chomping on my candy bar, its easy to jump right in and get to work on it.

If youre putting off shoveling the snow, promise yourself a reward for getting your coat, boot, hat and mittens on. If youre putting off starting that running program, promise yourself a reward for setting your running clothes & running shoes out and for setting your alarm a half hour earlier. You get the idea. Just do what you need to do to get moving.

2. Placate the child. I adapted this from The Now Habit: A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt-Free Play by Neil Fiore. Its the little child in you that doesnt want to do what you, the adult, is asking yourself to do. Maybe the child is whining that you never let it have any fun, or its afraid that once you start working, it will be all work and no play, so the child reasons its best to just not start.

Prevailing wisdom is that you need to reward yourself AFTER a task has been completed, which is the theory behind the first strategy. This strategy is the other way around. Whatever it is that youre doing that you dont want to give up, negotiate a little more of it in exchange for starting whatever it is youre putting off. For instance, if youre watching TV but you need to shovel the walk, promise yourself that you can watch to the end of JUST THIS program. Or finish the chapter in the book youre reading, or have that snack youre fantasizing about. Or tell yourself you can surf on line for 10 more minutes, and then its back to work. Then make sure you do it!

If your lethargy is chronic or persistent or is accompanied by other symptoms, consider seeing a doctor. At the very least, consider some lifestyle changes, such as getting more sleep, getting more exercise, and improving your eating habits.

I have a little saying that I use on myself. The less you feel like it, the more you need it. Fit people often feel like exercising, but out-of-shape people rarely do. People who eat healthy diets often have a hankering for raw vegetables, but people who live on a diet of junk rarely do. Highly productive workers do take breaks, but they dont let them interfere with their productivity they take a short break, and then they get on with their work. And so on.

Are you putting something off right now because you just dont feel like it? Before you click on another link, before you visit another site, or before you read another article, pick one of the two strategies and put them to work. Maybe youll even come to my website and email me to tell me if it worked or not! (Dont do that until AFTER youve knocked that thing off your to do list, though!)

 
 
 

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